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GPS For Love™ Finding Your Way to a Better Relationship
Using Expectation Maps to Avoid the Number One Relationship Killer
You have your Expectation Map™ . Now what?
We know it can be challenging to discuss sensitive topics with someone you love. What if they get angry? How do I avoid hurting their feelings? Will they really hear me? They are so sensitive, they’ll get defensive right away!
We have years of experience helping people discuss difficult topics in a loving sensitive way. We have developed a comprehensive 25 page Guide.
GPS For Love™
Finding Your Way to a Better Relationship
Our guide will take you step by step though the Expectation Map discussion and follow-up.
How to begin. How to cover growth versus strength categories. How to prevent defensiveness. How to handle emotions. Questions and Answers
You only get one first time to go though your Expectation Map results. Take the time to do it in the most effective way.
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Sample Contents from GPS For Love Finding Your Way to a Better Relationship
Page 4 Why relationship issues are hard for guys to discuss.
Women, in general, have been socialized to talk with each other about problems. They have no problems discussing their biggest fears and struggles with other women. They talk and share and when they are finished, they often feel better. They have connected and shared and empathized and that is all good.
Men, in general, do not discuss their biggest fears and troubles with other men. Expressing emotions is rarely affirmed in little boys. Studies have shown that mothers are less likely to sooth little boys who have skinned their knees than they are little girls. “Big boys do not cry” is still communicated to many boys. Because men are so competitive, expressing weaknesses or fears between men is a good way to get humiliated not comforted.
When women hear a problem, their first instinct is to find empathy with the problem.
When men hear a problem, their first instinct is to fix the problem, and when they don’t know how, they feel bad. Very bad.
Tell a man “we need to talk” and he’ll run. It always means trouble. It always means (or so men think) you want to tell him where he has failed. And more than most women realize, failure of any sort is not only the very last thing a man wants to discuss, it causes men physical pain.
“Cortisol is a hormone secreted during certain negative emotions. Its job is to get your attention by making you feel uncomfortable so that your discomfort drives you to do something to make the situation better. The pain a woman feels when her man shouts at her is caused by the sudden release of cortisol. A man feels this same discomfort when he is confronted with her unhappiness or criticism. He may look like he is avoiding her, but he is essentially trying to avoid a cortisol hangover for the next several hours”. How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Patricia Love, Steven Stosny
The GPS For Love program is designed to help women and men discuss expectations in a unique way specifically designed to reduce tension and discomfort.
GPS For Love allows you to quickly create Expectation Maps™ and share them with your partner so you can compare expectations, avoid miscommunication and reduce resentment.
Instead of saying “we need to talk” say “I want to hear how well your expectations are being met in our marriage or relationship. GPS For Love expectation maps can be completed online or on your Iphone in about two minutes. Then let’s get together and compare the expectation maps it creates. We’ll both understand each other’s needs and expectations better!”
Emotional connection follows safe two-way communication about needs and expectations. GPS For Love provides fun easy to use, male friendly tools which facilitate safe communication about needs and expectations not just once but over the long term.
You can download the guide instantly for $9.95 below with a 100% guarantee that it improves your relationship or we’ll refund your purchase price with no questions asked.
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